True friends are not easy to be found. But I am in the category of the lucky person to be gifted with such wonderful friends ever since i was in my kindergarten. One of my kindergarten friend who is still my friend. *Wait let me correct that*! ...who is more than my best friend now, is such a wonderful person god have given me. This is a picture of me in my kindergarten! And the person i am talking about is just standing at the back of me! *find me* :)
My primary and secondary school years are one of the best times i have ever had in my life. In fact, if i was given a chance, i would obviously go back to those times. They had stepped into my life and left such a deep footsteps which will never ever wash off! During my school years, we had always been together and so close whereby I know almost everything about them. Their characters, attitude, behavior (I know all these words refer almost to the same meaning) :) I can say i know them in and out so I have never really cared about feeling betrayed or back-stepped. We all had our strength and weaknesses and we always wanted all our friends to succeed in every thing we do. No matter in exam, test, competition or even a simple activity or game. So, i am very much tuned to the fact that all friends are very nice, loving, supportive and all the nice words you find just put them in here!
But when i entered my new life, outside school, this is like a whole new environment for me. I was the person who don't actually mingle around as I have my friends with me always everywhere even in tuition as we all go to the same tuition center. So, here i had new friends with different characters and first look we have this thing in everyone where we judge a person by their look! And now I say " please don't be DUMB to judge a person by their looks"! They might be the most prettiest person but when you know who they actually are, you will regret that you even know them! At the same time, you might have the most smartest person in your class but they will be so selfish that they would never want to share their knowledge! This is how my life is now! One aspect of life I have really gained so much is never to judge a person as people say don't judge a book by it's cover!
Anyway, that is how life is suppose to be right? We learn. Every thing that happens to us is for our own good! Its like GOD is testing me.God says, I had given you such wonderful friends since you were young and you do have such wonderful friends in your college, but I am not making your life easy! You find for your TRUE FRIENDS! And I did. :)
We experience and change to be a better person! And this is one of my life's lesson! One thing ; we should never make the same mistake again and i won't! :)
3 comments:
i like the part "..who is more than a friend now"...hehehehe..
babe, life is so funny u noe...u can never noe hu ur real friends are...
n guess wat, hu cares right..as long as you have the approval of that person staring back at you from your mirror (ur reflection, in case u misinterpret..hehehe), u dun need the rest. Life is tough, but you are way tougher. I have very few friends, n a lot of haters, but although it might affect me from time-to-time, I just don't care anymore. Gal, these friends from college n all, they are not true friends..they are just transitional friends which will eventually move away to different parts of the world. Those friends you have at home...those are true friends, in the right meaning.
Btw, I know I irritate u with romantic stories n all n i do push u to think abnormally with my ridiculous questions. But, at the end of the day despite my annoying attitude (wic i noe u have notticed), i <3 u very much k...if you are looking for a shoulder to lean on, look right beside you, coz i'll always be there.
Ps: I just woke up and am still very drowsy so sorry if this post is a lil bit "funny". :)
heheheheheheheheh!
Awwwww... You areeee sooo sweet! :) :) :)
I love you sooo much! :) :)
You never irritate me k! :) :) Mind it! :p
dear bagya, yes whatever you have been saying, its 100 percent true...a friend is the one who is with you always despite looks, socioeconomic status and so on....a true friend may not seem to be close with you, but they are always there whenver you are down...
a friend who just boast around, but never help wen ur in need is not a friend at all....
I might not be seen as a very friendly one my dear, but in case you want me, i am always there with you..........If i never be close with you, doesnt mean I am not there for you dear..take care dear....
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