25 November, 2011

-Love at first sight?-

Have you hared of the saying or what shall I say, the classic phenomenon called 'Love at first sight'. Well, I have seen many people really do believe in it. Especially this is very much obvious in Kollywood movies. Maybe that's how our young youths of today started believing in this too. It's actually like raising your head looking at the person in the eye and that very moment you know she/he is the one for you!

Well, in this case, I beg to differ.

I really have never believed this. Sometimes I feel its a crazy thought. How can a person who don't know you, don't know your character, as a matter of fact that person don't even know your name, actually falls in love with you and how can you term that as love. Some say, there is no reason for love. You don't need anything to love someone but I feel sometimes you do need something to fall in love to that someone. Its either their character that strikes you the most, or maybe the charm they have when they talk. Something pertinent that appeals you the most. You will have that feeling because of that special something but you wouldn't know, unless you really observe it. So, coming back, to the topic. Well, you can't just love someone on the road right, you need to know who they are, what they do for living, what is their character. You don't want to love the wrong person, do you? So, I always believe that you should know the person really well. Especially the main stuff a person should know about their bf/gf. For example, their profession, about their family, character, likes and dislikes, bad habits and etc. Both of you should get to know each other first before you feel the love.

I read this interesting article that says we fall in love not from the first sight but from the first smell. Scientist claim that we pay much attention to what our eyes and ears tell us but on the subconscious level the way the person smells play a very big part in his or her expression on us although we don’t recognize it.

Well, I really doubt it this is true but who knows. Just because I have never experienced this doesn't mean its not true right.

Every love story starts and ends in a different way. That is the specialty of every single human being. Maybe you had experienced love at first sight and if you did and your life story ends with 'and they live happily ever after'. Please do share you love story with me. I really would love to hear it. :)

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